If you love rope and want to find other people who love rope, go where those people are!

Many people find much more success using sites dedicated to kink or alternative lifestyles (as opposed to wading through hundreds of profiles on an otherwise vanilla site, looking for the rare kinky profile).

As discussed in Finding Your Local Scene, Submit.gg and FetLife.com can be a useful resource for meeting potential partners. These are kink and fetish-centric social media sites.  They are not set up as dating tools, although some do try to use them that way. Their intended purpose is better. We believe that if you are looking to form a real relationship, it is best to move things from virtual space to real-life space as quickly as you can. If you stay online, you can only get you so far.  Real life is where real experiences happen.  That is where Submit.gg and FetLife can be helpful. Their primary goal is to connect people with the real-life community, helping you find local groups of real people that share your interests.  Sign up for free, then go to the Events Page and look for munches to get started.