Questions to Ask When Vetting a Potential Rope Bottom
- Have you ever Bottomed for rope before? If yes, what was that experience like?
- Are you involved in the local community or scene? What kinds of community events do you go to?
- Do you have references or other partners I can talk to who have tied you?
- What, specifically, would you like to try? What is your experience with that/those thing(s)?
- What kinds of educational resources do you use to continue learning about rope?
- Remember, informed consent is not possible if one is not informed. It is necessary for both Tops and Bottoms to learn about the potential risks that come along with rope bondage.
- What are your hard/soft limits?
- I’m interested in tying you; would you be interested in doing a scene with me?