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Gote Shibari

Gote Shibari (aka the "Takate Kote" or "TK") is an very popular box tie used by riggers around the world!

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Top 5 Best Shibari Ties for Beginners

Discover the Top 5 Best Introductory Shibari Ties in this essential guide to rope bondage for beginners. Explore Shibari safely and confidently with these easy and simple ties.

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Getting Started

If you’ve been wondering how you can safely (and consensually) tie up a partner, you’ve come to the right place!

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Foundations of Rope Bondage (Class)

An instructor resource intended for those teaching an introductory class on Rope Bondage

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Ball Ties - Core

There are *many* ways to tie your partner into a ball. This tutorial shows you over 1600 of them…

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Bamboo Bondage

The use of bamboo in a bondage scene is evocative. This course walks you through the concepts from beginner to advanced

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Bondage Tutorials: Where To Start

Creating a Scene

Box Tie with 101 Techniques

Free Sample of CAS

Creating a Scene

Fall Waitress

A simple scene to celebrate the holidays!

Creating a Scene

Fall Colors - Quadruped

Includes bonus pictures from this playful set, just for fun!

Creating a Scene

Enforced Nadu

Blue in a classic enforced nadu pose.

Creating a Scene

Blue in 101 Rope

Blue demonstrating how beginner rope scenes are achieved.

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Pentagram Harness v2

This attractive harness can be lots of fun for religious- or occult-themed scenes.

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Handling - Using Up Extra Rope

How to use up extra rope when your main tie is complete.

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Woven Hip Harness - One-Sided - Locked with Half-hitch

This attractive harness is fast to tie, looks amazing and is suitable for horizontal side suspensions on one side (hip weave side down). This version is locked with a Half Hitch at the back.

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Lark's Head Knot

This is one of the simplest sliding (collapsing) knots. It should not be used for bondage directly, but is often the first step in other ties.

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6 Strand Matthew Walker Knot (MWK6)

The Six Strand Matthew Walker Knot is the transition that joins a flogger's handle to its falls — typically one of the first knots tied, anchoring the design that follows in both directions.

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Spatial Transformation

Preparing my rope space for the first guest: a vacuum, some plants, warm lights, and a detour through how smartphones make me a worse host than I want to be.

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Party invites and uncertainty

I've been invited to a rope party — and I'm anxious. Notes on social overthinking, imposter syndrome, and asking 'am I rope-y enough?' before the door opens.

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How growing closer can tear us apart

Why kink — and connection — fade in long-term partnerships, and what intentional rope practice has taught me about staying curious about people I already know.

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Custom fit

A pentagram chest harness with Hekate — three fittings, careful feedback, and the unfamiliar territory of physical intimacy without a sexual context.

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Baby's First Rope Party

My first rope party as a baby rope top — affirmations from Master before I left, a thoughtful gote shibari with the host, and a roomful of philosophizing.

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Extending Rope

Three way to add rope to your tie if you need a bit more...

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Scene Planning & Safety

Information helpful for planning out your suspension scene, including additional safety information