Scene Negotiation Forms
Here are some forms to help guide negotiations prior to a scene.
Here are some one-page BDSM Scene Planning and Negotiation Forms!
These are intended as conversation starters. To help players think through their desires and limits in a more comprehensive way, to help make sure that they have considered a wider variety of things. Most importantly so that they don't do something that will make any of the players uncomfortable or accidently violate a limit or consent, but also perhaps to include some cool thing that they may not have otherwise considered!
Find the downloads below!
If you want even more ideas, check out the BDSM Experience and Curiosity Checklist! This downloadable list of hundreds of different BDSM/Kink/Fetish activities will help you explore the history and areas of curiosity for yourself, a partner or potential partner.
Acknowledgements:
This list was compiled from many open sources and with input from many experienced kinksters. We added a few things and reorganized it. We now make this version available to the community under the Creative Commons Attribution-ShareAlike 4.0 International license.
Negotiation Conversation Starter Forms
General BDSM Scene
This is the General Negotiation Starter. It is intended for both/all parties.
- Negotiation Starter v2.1 - General - TheDuchy.docx (English)
- Negotiation Starter v2.1 - General - TheDuchy.pdf (English)
Both General & Rope Scene
This includes the General Negotiation Starter. It also includes a second part (focused on rope) for a rope top to give to a bottom.
- Negotiation Starter v2.1 - General & Rope - TheDuchy.docx (English)
- Negotiation Starter v2.1 - General & Rope - TheDuchy.pdf (English)
- Переговоры-перед-БДСМ-сессией-TheDuchy - РУC.pdf (Русский)
- 谈判启动器 v2.1 - 通用与绳索 - 简体中文 - TheDuchy.pdf (Simplified Chinese) We thank JZ and EH for this translation!
