Glossary
Shibari and rope bondage terminology — 74 terms with English and Japanese definitions.
A
ABOK
The Ashley Book of Knots. Although not a book specifically related to shibari, this encyclopedia of knots is a seminal work in cataloging all types of knots, with a taxonomy and reference using numerical identifiers. Written by sailor Clifford W. Ashley, the book was first published in 1944 and contains 3,857 numbered entries (although for rope bondage, it's likely you'll only use about 10 of these).
Aftercare
In a BDSM context, aftercare is the process of providing a stable and comforting environment to come out of a scene. Aftercare is widely personal and can include physical comfort, emotional support, and gradual transition back to everyday life.
Agura
胡座A casual sitting position with legs crossed, commonly used in informal settings.
Ashi
足The leg or foot in Japanese.
Awase
合わせTo match or align, often used in rope work to describe bringing elements together.
B
Battendome
罰点留めA friction formed in the shape of an 'X'. This is commonly used at a T-junction between ropes, such as on the top back of a gote. Also known as X-friction.
Box Tie
A common form of upper body bondage where the arms are bound behind the back, also known as gote shibari or takate kote.
Bunny Tie
兎縛り (Usagi shibari)A tie with the arms bound behind the head, often called a 'bunny tie' in English. Usagi (兎) is the Japanese word for 'bunny'. See also Kōtōbu ryō tekubi shibari (後頭部両手首縛り).
C
Chest Harness
A type of harness that focuses on the chest area, providing both aesthetic appeal and structural support for suspensions.
Column Tie
A basic tying technique where rope is wrapped around a limb or body part in a cylindrical fashion.
D
Dome
留めA friction or locking mechanism in rope work.
Double Column Tie
A tying technique that secures two limbs together, commonly used for wrists or ankles.
E
Erikumi
襟首The nape of the neck, an important area in rope work for both aesthetics and safety.
F
Friction
A method of securing rope without knots, using wraps and tension to hold rope in place.
Futomomo
太腿A tie of the thigh, often used in suspension work for structural support.
G
Gote
後手A tie with the hands bound behind the back, commonly known as a box tie in English.
Gote Shibari
後手縛りThe art of binding the hands behind the back, a fundamental technique in kinbaku.
H
Harness
A structural rope pattern designed to distribute weight and provide support, often used in suspension work.
Hip Harness
A harness that focuses on the hip area, commonly used for suspension and structural support.
I
Ikada
筏A raft or platform tie, often used in floor work.
J
Jute
A natural fiber rope commonly used in traditional shibari, known for its grip and aesthetic qualities.
K
Kinbaku
緊縛The art of Japanese rope bondage, emphasizing aesthetics, connection, and technique.
Kote
小手The forearm or wrist area.
Kōtōbu ryō tekubi shibari
後頭部両手首縛りA tie with the arms bound behind the head, often called a 'bunny tie' in English. See also Usagi shibari (兎縛り).
L
Leg Tie
A tying technique focused on the legs, often used for structural support or aesthetic purposes.
M
Mune
胸The chest area.
Muneate
胸当てA chest harness or chest protection in rope work.
N
Nawa
縄Rope in Japanese.
Newaza
寝技Tying on the bed, or floor work. See also Yukawaza (床技).
Nodome
の留めA friction knot, commonly used in rope work for securing rope without traditional knots.
O
Onigote
鬼小手A variation of the gote tie with specific aesthetic characteristics.
P
Partial Suspension
A suspension where the bottom is partially lifted from the ground, with some weight still supported by the floor.
R
Radial Nerve
A nerve that runs through the arm and can be affected by rope work, particularly in wrist ties.
Rigger
The person who ties in rope bondage, also known as the top or dominant partner.
Rope Bottom
The person being tied in rope bondage, also known as the bottom or submissive partner.
S
Seiza
正座A formal sitting position on the knees, commonly used in traditional Japanese culture.
Shibari
縛りThe art of Japanese rope bondage, focusing on aesthetics, connection, and technique.
Single Column Tie
A basic tying technique that secures one limb or body part.
Suspension
A rope technique where the bottom is lifted completely off the ground, supported entirely by rope.
T
Takate Kote
高手小手A traditional upper body tie with the arms bound behind the back, also known as TK.
Tasuki
襷A sash used to hold up a kimono, also used to describe a specific rope pattern.
Tsuri
吊りSuspension in Japanese rope work.
U
Usagi
兎Rabbit in Japanese, often used to describe bunny ties or exposed armpits.
Usagi shibari
兎縛りA tie with the arms bound behind the head, often called a 'bunny tie' in English.
Ushirode
後ろ手Hands bound behind the back.
Ushirote gasshō shibari
後ろ手合掌縛りA tie with the hands bound in a praying position behind the back. Commonly known as a reverse prayer tie in English.
Ushirote kote zuri
後ろ手小手吊りA type of torture from the Edo period where a prisoner is lifted from the ground using their hands tied behind the back.
Ushirote shibari
後ろ手縛りAlso known as ushirote takata kote shibari. This refers to the arms being bound high behind the back. This is the common form of a 'box tie'.
Ushirote tasuki shibari
後ろ手襷縛りInspired by the tasuki, used to hold up a kimono, this pattern ties the wrists behind the back, then crosses the chest.
Utsubuse shibari
うつ伏せ縛りA suspension where the bottom is suspended in a face-down position.
Utsubuse zuri
うつ伏せ吊りA suspension where the bottom is suspended in a face-down position. See Utsubuse shibari.
V
Vanilla
A term often used to describe someone who does not partake in bondage or kink activities, or a sexual activity that does not involve any form of kink/BDSM.
Vet
In a kink context, vetting (to vet) involves learning more about a potential play partner to determine if they feel safe to play with or like a good match.
W
Wadome
輪留めLike a nodome, but tied the other way round. Known as an inverted/inverse Munter hitch.
Waki sarashi
脇晒しExposed armpits, also known as usagi or bunny ears, where hands are bound behind the head near the nape of the neck.
Wall knot
A wall knot is a form of stopper knot, using the split strands of rope to form a stopper. Assigned the reference ABOK #671.
Washitsu
和室A Japanese-style room, frequently called a 'tatami room' in English, with traditional tatami flooring.
Watanawa
綿縄Cotton rope. Derived from wata (綿 or cotton) and nawa (縄 or rope).
Western bondage
Western bondage can trace its lineage back to the mid-century publications of famed fetishists like John Willie, Irving Klaw and Helmut Newton.
Whipping
In rope, whipping is a way of finishing the ends of rope to prevent fraying, achieved by wrapping twine around the rope to hold it in place.
Working end
Also known as a running end, this is the part of the rope actively being used in the tying, as opposed to the standing end.
Wrist drop
A nerve injury caused by pressure on the radial nerve, resulting in motor function impairment of the wrist and inability to lift the wrist. Also known as radial nerve palsy.
Wykd Fast bowline
A quick bowline method developed by Wykd Dave.
X
X-friction
A friction formed in the shape of an 'X'. This is commonly used at a T-junction between ropes. Also known as battendome (罰点留め).
Y
Yoko musubi
横結び'Side knot', also known as a granny knot.
Yokozuri
横吊りA side suspension, where the bottom is tied in a sideways orientation.
Yokozuwari
横座りSometimes described as a 'broken seiza', this position involves sitting on the knee with hips to the side of the legs.
Yubi shibari
指縛りA tie of the fingers, sometimes falling under the category of 'microbondage'.
Yuka shibari
床縛りTying on the floor.
Yukata shibari
浴衣縛りThe act of tying a model who wears a summer kimono (yukata).
Yukawaza
床技Tying on the bed, or floor work. See also Newaza (寝技).
Yuki knot
Commonly used name for a knot used by Yukimura sensei, involving pulling a loop and locking it with a hitch.
Z
Zenpou takate shibari
前方高手縛りBinding hands high in the front, similar to modern choker ties.
Zuri
吊りAlternative form of tsuri (吊り), used when forming a suffix.