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Glossary

Shibari and rope bondage terminology — 74 terms with English and Japanese definitions.

A

ABOK

The Ashley Book of Knots. Although not a book specifically related to shibari, this encyclopedia of knots is a seminal work in cataloging all types of knots, with a taxonomy and reference using numerical identifiers. Written by sailor Clifford W. Ashley, the book was first published in 1944 and contains 3,857 numbered entries (although for rope bondage, it's likely you'll only use about 10 of these).

Aftercare

In a BDSM context, aftercare is the process of providing a stable and comforting environment to come out of a scene. Aftercare is widely personal and can include physical comfort, emotional support, and gradual transition back to everyday life.

Agura

胡座

A casual sitting position with legs crossed, commonly used in informal settings.

Ashi

The leg or foot in Japanese.

Awase

合わせ

To match or align, often used in rope work to describe bringing elements together.

B

Battendome

罰点留め

A friction formed in the shape of an 'X'. This is commonly used at a T-junction between ropes, such as on the top back of a gote. Also known as X-friction.

Box Tie

A common form of upper body bondage where the arms are bound behind the back, also known as gote shibari or takate kote.

Bunny Tie

兎縛り (Usagi shibari)

A tie with the arms bound behind the head, often called a 'bunny tie' in English. Usagi (兎) is the Japanese word for 'bunny'. See also Kōtōbu ryō tekubi shibari (後頭部両手首縛り).

C

Chest Harness

A type of harness that focuses on the chest area, providing both aesthetic appeal and structural support for suspensions.

Column Tie

A basic tying technique where rope is wrapped around a limb or body part in a cylindrical fashion.

D

Dome

留め

A friction or locking mechanism in rope work.

Double Column Tie

A tying technique that secures two limbs together, commonly used for wrists or ankles.

E

Erikumi

襟首

The nape of the neck, an important area in rope work for both aesthetics and safety.

F

Friction

A method of securing rope without knots, using wraps and tension to hold rope in place.

Futomomo

太腿

A tie of the thigh, often used in suspension work for structural support.

G

Gote

後手

A tie with the hands bound behind the back, commonly known as a box tie in English.

Gote Shibari

後手縛り

The art of binding the hands behind the back, a fundamental technique in kinbaku.

H

Harness

A structural rope pattern designed to distribute weight and provide support, often used in suspension work.

Hip Harness

A harness that focuses on the hip area, commonly used for suspension and structural support.

I

Ikada

A raft or platform tie, often used in floor work.

J

Jute

A natural fiber rope commonly used in traditional shibari, known for its grip and aesthetic qualities.

K

Kinbaku

緊縛

The art of Japanese rope bondage, emphasizing aesthetics, connection, and technique.

Kote

小手

The forearm or wrist area.

Kōtōbu ryō tekubi shibari

後頭部両手首縛り

A tie with the arms bound behind the head, often called a 'bunny tie' in English. See also Usagi shibari (兎縛り).

L

Leg Tie

A tying technique focused on the legs, often used for structural support or aesthetic purposes.

M

Mune

The chest area.

Muneate

胸当て

A chest harness or chest protection in rope work.

N

Nawa

Rope in Japanese.

Newaza

寝技

Tying on the bed, or floor work. See also Yukawaza (床技).

Nodome

の留め

A friction knot, commonly used in rope work for securing rope without traditional knots.

O

Onigote

鬼小手

A variation of the gote tie with specific aesthetic characteristics.

P

Partial Suspension

A suspension where the bottom is partially lifted from the ground, with some weight still supported by the floor.

R

Radial Nerve

A nerve that runs through the arm and can be affected by rope work, particularly in wrist ties.

Rigger

The person who ties in rope bondage, also known as the top or dominant partner.

Rope Bottom

The person being tied in rope bondage, also known as the bottom or submissive partner.

S

Seiza

正座

A formal sitting position on the knees, commonly used in traditional Japanese culture.

Shibari

縛り

The art of Japanese rope bondage, focusing on aesthetics, connection, and technique.

Single Column Tie

A basic tying technique that secures one limb or body part.

Suspension

A rope technique where the bottom is lifted completely off the ground, supported entirely by rope.

T

Takate Kote

高手小手

A traditional upper body tie with the arms bound behind the back, also known as TK.

Tasuki

A sash used to hold up a kimono, also used to describe a specific rope pattern.

Tsuri

吊り

Suspension in Japanese rope work.

U

Usagi

Rabbit in Japanese, often used to describe bunny ties or exposed armpits.

Usagi shibari

兎縛り

A tie with the arms bound behind the head, often called a 'bunny tie' in English.

Ushirode

後ろ手

Hands bound behind the back.

Ushirote gasshō shibari

後ろ手合掌縛り

A tie with the hands bound in a praying position behind the back. Commonly known as a reverse prayer tie in English.

Ushirote kote zuri

後ろ手小手吊り

A type of torture from the Edo period where a prisoner is lifted from the ground using their hands tied behind the back.

Ushirote shibari

後ろ手縛り

Also known as ushirote takata kote shibari. This refers to the arms being bound high behind the back. This is the common form of a 'box tie'.

Ushirote tasuki shibari

後ろ手襷縛り

Inspired by the tasuki, used to hold up a kimono, this pattern ties the wrists behind the back, then crosses the chest.

Utsubuse shibari

うつ伏せ縛り

A suspension where the bottom is suspended in a face-down position.

Utsubuse zuri

うつ伏せ吊り

A suspension where the bottom is suspended in a face-down position. See Utsubuse shibari.

V

Vanilla

A term often used to describe someone who does not partake in bondage or kink activities, or a sexual activity that does not involve any form of kink/BDSM.

Vet

In a kink context, vetting (to vet) involves learning more about a potential play partner to determine if they feel safe to play with or like a good match.

W

Wadome

輪留め

Like a nodome, but tied the other way round. Known as an inverted/inverse Munter hitch.

Waki sarashi

脇晒し

Exposed armpits, also known as usagi or bunny ears, where hands are bound behind the head near the nape of the neck.

Wall knot

A wall knot is a form of stopper knot, using the split strands of rope to form a stopper. Assigned the reference ABOK #671.

Washitsu

和室

A Japanese-style room, frequently called a 'tatami room' in English, with traditional tatami flooring.

Watanawa

綿縄

Cotton rope. Derived from wata (綿 or cotton) and nawa (縄 or rope).

Western bondage

Western bondage can trace its lineage back to the mid-century publications of famed fetishists like John Willie, Irving Klaw and Helmut Newton.

Whipping

In rope, whipping is a way of finishing the ends of rope to prevent fraying, achieved by wrapping twine around the rope to hold it in place.

Working end

Also known as a running end, this is the part of the rope actively being used in the tying, as opposed to the standing end.

Wrist drop

A nerve injury caused by pressure on the radial nerve, resulting in motor function impairment of the wrist and inability to lift the wrist. Also known as radial nerve palsy.

Wykd Fast bowline

A quick bowline method developed by Wykd Dave.

X

X-friction

A friction formed in the shape of an 'X'. This is commonly used at a T-junction between ropes. Also known as battendome (罰点留め).

Y

Yoko musubi

横結び

'Side knot', also known as a granny knot.

Yokozuri

横吊り

A side suspension, where the bottom is tied in a sideways orientation.

Yokozuwari

横座り

Sometimes described as a 'broken seiza', this position involves sitting on the knee with hips to the side of the legs.

Yubi shibari

指縛り

A tie of the fingers, sometimes falling under the category of 'microbondage'.

Yuka shibari

床縛り

Tying on the floor.

Yukata shibari

浴衣縛り

The act of tying a model who wears a summer kimono (yukata).

Yukawaza

床技

Tying on the bed, or floor work. See also Newaza (寝技).

Yuki knot

Commonly used name for a knot used by Yukimura sensei, involving pulling a loop and locking it with a hitch.

Z

Zenpou takate shibari

前方高手縛り

Binding hands high in the front, similar to modern choker ties.

Zuri

吊り

Alternative form of tsuri (吊り), used when forming a suffix.